Everything you need to create the marriage you'll love.   

element of compatibility

are you crazy for each other –
or driving each other crazy?

Get matched before you get hitched with the MBTI®, the world's most popular personality assessment.

You will discover your and your partner's relationship strengths, how you view courtship, intimacy and commitment – and also how to respect and value each other's personality style.

element of readiness

are you ready for each other –
are you both ready for marriage?

Go beyond getting 'good advice': Start your life together with more answers than questions by completing a pre-marriage readiness checkup.

Together you will discover your couple strengths and challenges – what you're doing right and what you can do better.

element of wellness

so happy and healthy together –
getting in shape for marriage

Choosing to live your best life – together: Begin your journey towards a healthy and happy future.

Real health, sometimes called 'wellness' or 'well-being', is a choice to gain a deeper understanding of yourself, and a desire to achieve your highest potential in every dimension of your life.

element of kinship

making decisions together
about parenting children together

From your pasts, your future: If marriage means children to you, now is a great time to discover and share your two family stories and genetic heritage.

Now is also the right time to discuss and agree how you will parent together the children you create together.

element of wealth

putting the finance into romance –
welcome to Love Inc.

Putting your marriage in charge of your money: On every measure of financial well-being, married couples do better than any other group in society.

And the more financial decisions you make early on in your relationhip, the greater your chances of making a life rather than just making a living.

element of commitment

promises to make together –
and promises to keep together

A marriage made for two: It's time to agree your marriage commitments to each another. Your legal advisors will help you create commitments that are good for each of you and fair to you both.

So: What would the world's greatest marriage be like? Here is your opportunity to find out.

element of ceremony

proclaiming publicly your commitments
before family, friends and community

Congratulations: Your wedding day; an occasion you'll always remember.

By signing your WeDo Marriage Contract during your marriage ceremony, you publicly declare you will honour and sustain the legal commitments you have both created and freely chosen.

Your seven elements of marriage

What is this?

WeDo Marriage® is the world's first couple marriage company.

We empower couples to design and sustain their own personalised, commitment-focused marriage contracts – without interference from the 1970s-designed family law system.

A journey and a destination

We enable not just a new marriage – but a new way of marrying: a seven-step path:

along which couples learn more about themselves and each other, and

express and develop shared expectations of their future together.

Three years, three Irish guys

WeDo Marriage® Limited is the creation of three guys from Dublin, Ireland.

For the past three years we've been busy founding a company, creating a brand and building a new marriage for a new generation.

 

“A marriage contract that's great for each of you – and fair to both of you.”

A marriage made for you by you

Get started right now on your Marriage Contract by grabbing our free document template in Google Docs.

Share it with your partner and create your vision of a shared life together.

Our marriage contract wiki

At wedomarriage.org is the world's first wiki for community-created, open-source marriage contracts.

Our wiki provides couples with a starting point for designing and sustaining their commitment-focused relationships.

Your great ideas for great marriages

Contribute your marriage contract ideas to our Ideascale website. And discuss, comment and vote on suggestions submitted by others.

The best ideas that people are most passionate about will bubble up to the top.

 
Naomi Wolf

Let's get the state out of the marriage union. Celebrate marriage with a religious or secular ceremony, and create a partner contract aligning the couple legally.

Naomi Wolf, author and journalist  

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“We come to love not by finding a perfect person but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” – Sam Keen, To Love and Be Loved.
“Only when you know what you want and what you are all about can you really look for it in a partner” – Monica Mendez Leahy, 1001 Questions To Ask