Your elements of marriage

discovering what you truly seek, and reaching for it.

It starts here. It begins now: your dance of discovery about yourself, your partner and a future to build, share and enjoy together.

element of readiness

are you ready for each other –
are you both ready for marriage?

Go beyond getting 'good advice': Start your life together with more answers than questions by completing a marriage readiness checkup. Together you will discover your couple strengths and challenges – what you're doing right and what you can do better.

Which of the 16 personality types best fits you? Find out with our free MBTI-style test and personality profiles. And exchange experiences and insights about life and love with others who share your personality type. You and your partner can build a strong foundation for a successful relationship by learning more about your relationship strengths, how you tend to fall in love, and how you view courtship, intimacy and commitment. Finally, take the 100% official MBTI® online, discuss your reports, and attach them as an exhibit to your Marriage Contract.

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element of readiness

are you ready for each other –
are you both ready for marriage?

Go beyond getting 'good advice': Start your life together with more answers than questions by completing a marriage readiness checkup. Together you will discover your couple strengths and challenges – what you're doing right and what you can do better.

How much have you both yet to discover about each other's expectations of what marriage will bring? You feel you love each other now – but how will you know if you will love your life together? Get the confidence to make the best choices with the Couple Checkup®. It includes a 30-minute online assessment, detailed analyses of your results and a 24-page discussion guide. After you've discussed your checkup report, attach your results as an exhibit to your Marriage Contract.

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element of wellness

so happy and healthy together –
getting your mind, body and spirit in shape for marriage

Choosing to live your best life – together: Begin your journey towards a wonderful destination: a healthy and happy future for you and your intended life partner.

Take the online Wellness Inventory as a couple to gain a deeper understanding of your physical, emotional and relational well-being. And transform your new awareness into sustainable lifestyle change, and a renewed sense of health and well-being. Use the Personal Health Statement, the Physician's Examination Report and the Personal Bio-Chemistry Report to help your physician assess your current health profile as a couple, and to identify any health issues so that they may be addressed and resolved. After you've shared and discussed your various wellness and health reports with each other and with your physician, attach your results as an exhibit to your Marriage Contract.

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element of kinship

making decisions together
about making children together

This element is under development.

 

 

 

 

 

element of wealth

putting the finance into romance –
welcome to Love Inc.

What do you want money for? By knowing your and your partner's money values – what you feel is important about money and what you believe money is worth spending it on – you really make your money work for you and discover the difference between 'making a living' and making a life.

Take the free online Color of Money assessment. Along with the MBTI, it will provide you both with a clear understanding of your money values – and a perfect starting point for consulation with your financial mentor. Whatever your financial dreams for the future, you can discover and share where you are right now as a couple by completing your Personal Net Worth Statements. After you've discussed your financial values and circumstances, and received expert advice, attach your documents as exhibits to your Marriage Contract.

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element of commitment

promises to make and keep –
offering and accepting each other as husband and wife

This element is under development.

 

 

 

 

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element of ceremony

making your mutual commitment in public –
from nearly-weds to newly-weds

Congratulations! Your wedding day; an occasion you'll always remember. Your marriage ceremony is a celebration, whether it is a religious or a secular ceremony, and right of passage shared with family, friends and community.

You choose from the rich heritage of wedding ceremonies – from the traditional to the modern, from the splendorous with all the trimmings to the intimate family gathering at home or at some exotic location. You have a choice of vows (although a religious solemnizer may have vows that you can't deviate from), rings, wedding dress, photographer, food and all that goes with your special day. With a WeDo Marriage, you sign your own couple-created Marriage Contract instead of the state register.

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