I am now involved in a fabulous relationship that probably would never have evolved without the help and guidance that I gained from this book. I’ve since ordered copies for my two best friends who, like me, have struggled with relationships in the past. I highly recommend this book!

I Love You. Now What? Falling in Love is a Mystery, Keeping It Isn't – Mabel Iam.

“Am reading it cover to cover, every chapter is really exceptional. I am right now ordering several copies to give as a gift to my friends!”

“I recommend this book for everyone, before you’re even in a relationship or at any stage of marriage. Get this book, and you’ll be on your way to the best marriage you could ever imagine.”

“If you want to improve yourself and your relationship, this is an absolutely excellent book that tells you how to think and what to do step by step with remarkable and innovative techniques.”

“This book completely empowered me and led me to new ideas on what it is to be a real husband. I highly recommend this book for anyone who wants insight into building a better relationship.”

“Offers a guide to physical and spiritual health, exercises for a deep relationship and the development of an open and intrepid approach to the joys of physical and spiritual love.”

“Phenomenal, original guide of love and sex, excellent writing, educational. A great book!”

“Iam is an author with an unlimited fervent about love, sex and spiritual grow. You can tell and feel these characteristics in all her books.”

“Presents true insights and emotions to develop a real relationship. Married, Single with or without love interest, this book is a must.”

“The basic goals of this book are to educate people on how and why a relationship works. I HIGHLY recommend it. Everyone should own this book or buy it for those they love.”

“Provides key insights as to how to meet the emotional needs of our mate. In the process, we also learn a great deal about ourselves.”

“Enjoy it and thanks to Mabel for blessing everyone with such deal of knowledge in just one book. Thanks Again!”

“Iam presents the key themes about the common desire of union with the other through the open expression of the emotions, communication, and affection and invites you to reflect upon them.”

“It’s not just another self help book. Mabel speaks from the heart, she is realistic but sensitive, is an easy book to read and mostly is full of useful information and advice to implement in your daily life.”

“Without a doubt the best guide I have ever read for real, intimate and long-lasting relationships. Whether you're married, single, with or without love interest, this book is a must.”

“She shares great wisdom for bringing lovemaking up several notches to help anyone who wants to feel passion and bliss, both inside as well as outside the bedroom in their relationship.”

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Often we enter into a relationship and say ‘I love you’, but then wonder ‘Now what?’ Feeling love for someone is not enough to keep the spark alive.

Successful relationships need a solid foundation that’s rooted in a continuous exchange of emotions, ideas, wills, beliefs, actions, reactions, vibrations, thoughts and objectives. Often this can be difficult and complicated to achieve, but
I Love You. Now What? offers easy-to-follow methods for enjoying the benefits of a lasting relationship.

The foundation for happiness is set when the exchange between a couple is positive and balanced. Through it, love can be rediscovered and shared by way of trust, understanding, gentleness, union and acceptance. But before we can enjoy its benefits, we must learn how this process is carried out, after we say the words ‘I love you’.

We have to construct the relationship and this is the most difficult and complicated thing to do in life. There are no schools that teach this. Nobody has ever taught us how to relate to ourselves or to other people. Religions across the ages, without a doubt, have had some say in the matter, yet conflicts, divorces and problems seem to increase more and more each day.

Questions about love are endless: Can one learn to love? Are we capable of loving more than one person? How many relationships should we have before deciding which will be "the one"? Can we really love someone all of our lives?

Among the many answers, according to author Mabel Iam, is that love is the most beautiful and simple art in life. Love, as any art, is learned. In fact, the desire to efficiently and consciously solidify a relationship is an act of maturity. This process, when carried out by both members of the relationship, is splendid and very gratifying for the couple on the material, emotional, mental and spiritual levels. If we wish to learn how to love, we must proceed in the same way we would to master anything else.

Love benefits every level of our existence. It nurtures and sustains every act and situation that we go through in our lives. Thanks to this, it is life’s central theme and the primary area on which we have to focus our energies. Yes, whether we want to admit it or not, all of us will fall in love at some point in our lives. We may feel lost while navigating this wondrous art because for this, the most interesting of all human activities, there is no school.

Through exploring why we fall in love, reflecting on the emotional stages we experience and examining issues that can negatively influence our relationship – including communication, trust and sex – Mabel Iam reveals how love can not only survive, but thrive.

Every relationship that we undertake in life helps us grow, be it through painful or pleasant experiences. Not all relationships work out, but all pass through our lives for some special purpose. Every time we need to learn something, we attract people who will help us find the answers. Only that one specific experience or that one particular relationship holds the key to teaching us the true answer.

Our relationships act as a mirror of our inner selves. That is why we have to take the following motto into account: ‘That which I love in others is me. That which I reject in others is also me.’ We have the power to accept, modify and grow from any virtue or defect we encounter in ourselves. We can also carry out this same process in relationships, to deepen our love and trust for both ourselves and our significant other.

If we remember the example of the mirror, we can change our view of the world and our own relationships. We can apply the law of attraction to find that special person who will correspond perfectly with our own feelings and thoughts. We assume responsibility for our relationships and therefore we control the destiny of each one.

Mabel Iam offers a practical guide for keeping love alive and finding, once and for all, a perfect and harmonious relationship. Her clear and thoughtful advice, her exclusive recipes for great sex and fascinating testimonials from her clients will help readers achieve the ultimate joy in live: long, lasting love.

About the Author

Born in Argentina and now living with her husband in Miami, Mabel Iam is the author of international award-winning self-help bestsellers on love, sex and relationships.
      She is a psychotherapist, a romance therapist and a successful hostess and producer for TV and radio shows. Her Sex and the Perfect Lover was translated into over 10 languages.